As Jenna Matlin, tells Bustle, “I believe that in a lifetime we are in constant communication with the universe. We’re co-writing the story of our lives and it’s a dance between what our ego wants and what we’re meant to learn and have. When people put their intention to find love out there, it’s typically delivered. The universe nudges you in directions to get you there, but often we ignore it. The sky does not erupt into fireworks when you finally meet them. Usually, it’s quiet. You will just know but in that soft kind of way.”
When you search for your loved one, you feel like the universe doesn’t have your back. The reason behind this is simple, you will be dating people after people, but still, you are unable to find the right one for you, despite meeting so many people who don’t see that spark and connection with anyone but don’t get disheartened. There is one person who is just made for you, and trust me; you will be able to find that person once you start recognizing the sign the universe is giving you to be with someone.
Here is a list of eight such signs; you can go through them one by one.
You are at Peace with Yourself
Saint Francis de Sales once said, and I quote,” Never be in a hurry; do everything quietly and in a calm spirit. Do not lose your inner peace for anything whatsoever, even if your whole world seems upset.” It is imperative to be at peace with yourself, and once you have done this, it becomes a sign from the universe that someone will enter your life. Your special one is on their way, and soon you will be meeting them in person.
You Keep Meeting the Same Person Again and Again
If you are coming across the same person repeatedly, then it is a sign from the universe that you have found your special one. Talk to that person and figure out if you love them or not. But how would you do that? It’s straightforward. Pablo Neruda said, “I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you simply, without problems or pride: I love you in this way because I do not know any other way of loving but this, in which there is no I or you, so intimate that your hand upon my chest is my hand, so intimate that when I fall asleep your eyes close.” Suppose you feel like this with that person, then they are your special one.
You are Dreaming about the Same Person
Harvey Mackay said, “When you have a dream that you can’t let go of, trust your instincts and pursue it. But remember: Real dreams take work, they take patience, and sometimes they require you to dig down very deep. Be sure you’re willing to do that.” So, if you are having the same person come to you repeatedly, then trust your instincts and the sign from the universe and try building relationships with that person.
Something is Getting Repeated Now and Then
Kristen Engelke says, “There are no such things as coincidences, so what most of us would categorize as such is always a sign.” If you are seeing, hearing, or feeling something, and it is repeated now and then, it is a sign from the universe. For example, you hear the same song repeatedly at different places or see the same advertisements now and then. These are the signs that the universe is giving you to inform you that you have found your special one, and they will soon be entering your life.
You Have This Special Feeling When You Meet Your Special One
Sarah Dessen in The Truth About Forever says, “There is never a time or place for true love. It happens accidentally, in a heartbeat, in a single flashing, throbbing moment.” These lines are accurate. It often happens when you meet someone, and instantly there is this feeling, yes, this is it, this is the person I have always been looking for. That feeling is not just a random feeling, but it is a sign from the universe. So, recognize it and follow your heart.
You Start Perceiving Someone in a Romantic Way
For example, this person X you have known for four to five years, but suddenly you start feeling something for me. Before this, both of you were merely friends, but now you imagine some romantic scenes with him/her, then this is the sign from the universe that he is your man or woman. The universe wants to put both of you together, so go and talk to that person and figure out everything.
Has it ever happened with you that you think to call, message, or meet someone, and suddenly out of nowhere, you bump into that person. It has happened with many of us but do you know what it means? It is nothing but a signal from the universe that person is the one who has been made just for you. So, all those moments where you say I was thinking about you are not an accident. It is a direct signal from the universe. They have been on your mind, and because of this, synchronicities occur.
You Feel Your Life is Falling Apart
When you feel that nothing is going your way just because you are not talking or meeting that particular person, then take it as a signal from the universe. The universe wants to tell you that they are the one, and you don’t have to force yourself to leave them instead, and you should take steps to get close to him. Lastly, I would like to quote Elif Safak, A life without love is of no account. Don’t ask yourself what kind of love you should seek, spiritual or material, divine or mundane, Eastern or Western. Divisions only lead to more divisions. Love has no labels, no definitions. It is what it is, pure and simple. “Love is the water of life. And a lover is a soul of fire! “The universe turns differently when fire loves water.”